This scenario is not really an ETHICAL dilemma but it is a PRACTICE dilemma and I would like some feedback. I have been seeing a woman in her 50s for about six months. The focus of the work has been around sub-clinical depression, work stress, and relationships (or lack thereof).
She has been divorced 10 years and is hoping for another relationship. When she came into a session right after Valentines Day, she asked: "Did you do anything special for Valentines Day?" Knowing that her loneliness is part of her depression, how should I have answered? Do you answer with the truth and risk making her feel worse? So you not answer and perhaps put a dent in the pretty good therapeutic relationship? Or turn it around and ask how she reacts to Valentines Day in her situation?
She has been divorced 10 years and is hoping for another relationship. When she came into a session right after Valentines Day, she asked: "Did you do anything special for Valentines Day?" Knowing that her loneliness is part of her depression, how should I have answered? Do you answer with the truth and risk making her feel worse? So you not answer and perhaps put a dent in the pretty good therapeutic relationship? Or turn it around and ask how she reacts to Valentines Day in her situation?